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A Journey with Thoroughbreds: From Childhood Memories to Advocacy

The photo above captures a moment from my childhood with my Thoroughbred, Faithful Steps, affectionately known as “Squirt” around the barn. She was a small black mare with endless sass and a heart of pure gold. Together, Squirt and I shared an unforgettable journey—moving from Maiden equitation at 2’ all the way to the beginning of 3’6”. At that time, the horse show rings were filled with Thoroughbreds, and she was my steady partner as I learned not only how to ride, but how to truly become a horsewoman.

Squirt taught me lessons that have stayed with me for a lifetime. Her sensitive, spirited nature demanded softness, patience, and understanding. She showed me the power of quiet hands, a balanced seat, and the importance of asking with kindness rather than force. Our relationship was built on trust and mutual respect, and through her, I learned the true meaning of horsemanship.

As the show world gradually shifted toward Warmbloods, I stepped away from Thoroughbreds for a time—but my heart never truly left them. Many of the horses and ponies I owned still carried Thoroughbred bloodlines, a reflection of my enduring admiration for the breed. I’ve always been drawn to their elegance, their intelligence, and their undeniable spirit. I suppose I’ve always been a romantic when it comes to Thoroughbreds.

Years later, a visit to the racetrack reignited that passion in a powerful way. Becoming involved with a local Thoroughbred aftercare organization—where I had the privilege of serving on the board—opened my eyes to the critical need for advocacy beyond the finish line. It showed me how vital aftercare is, and how much opportunity exists to give these horses meaningful second chances. From that point forward, I became deeply committed to ensuring Thoroughbreds receive the care, respect, and opportunities they deserve after their racing careers end.

Around the same time, I experienced a turning point in my own life when I was unexpectedly laid off from a job. That moment forced me into a new path—one filled with growth, reinvention, and success I hadn’t anticipated. That experience shaped my belief that Off-The-Track Thoroughbreds deserve the same opportunity: a do-over, a chance to shine in new disciplines, and a future where they are valued and loved.

That belief is what led me to create and host BEYOND the Backstretch events. These events are designed to showcase the incredible versatility, heart, and value of Thoroughbreds while changing perceptions and celebrating what makes them so special. My goal is to remind people that owning and riding a Thoroughbred is not only a privilege, but a deeply rewarding partnership.

My journey with Thoroughbreds has been one of love, learning, and lifelong advocacy. From my early days with Squirt to my work today promoting aftercare and second careers, my devotion to these horses has never wavered. They have given me so much, and it is my mission to give back—ensuring they have the opportunity to live full, meaningful lives beyond the racetrack.

The story of the Thoroughbred is one of resilience, grace, and heart. I am proud to be a part of that story, and even more proud to stand alongside those who believe, as I do, that every Thoroughbred deserves a chance to find their place in the world—just as they helped me find mine.